There's been a regionally rare bird present on my "home patch" for over a week now, one which I hadn't seen or photographed before, and this left me determined in a rather possessive way to find it. I hadn't focused on the relevant eBird notifications, but my interest was piqued when I saw a report of a group's sighting. I went to the site that afternoon following some directions that I later realized were ambiguous and could refer to two different places. Naturally, I perched myself at the wrong one, but a helpful birder saw me sitting there, duly equipped with camera and binoculars, and asked if I was looking for the rarity. She told me that I was at the wrong place, and we walked together for a few minutes to reach the right one. Once we arrived, we spent a while while calls were being heard, but didn't see the bird. It's very helpful to have more than one set of eyes and ears looking, especially when the ears (like my own) aren't fully capable.
I went again the next day, and found that there weren't as many other people around. Armed with the amazing Merlin app (real-time spectrum analysis in your pocket!), it was clear that many birds were about, and that the rare one was among them. I did see it briefly as it flew from one tree to another, but couldn't get photos. I did get a couple of other nice views as consolation prizes, though, of a Common Yellowthroat and a Willow Flycatcher.
Having invested two outings without succeeding in my goal, and having one more day available before a rainy forecast, I went again for a third try. Thanks to another helpful birder for helping me to find my first-ever Prothonotary Warbler! Among birders, a "life bird" (a species that one observes for the first time) is generally considered as an accomplishment, and something for which one should be congratulated. Different people choose to interpret "observed" in different ways. Some consider hearing a recognized call as sufficient, others count only visual sightings, and some (like me) only consider a bird as truly observed when it's photographed. Whatever the metric, the desire to add to the counted list seems to be universal. Happily, most birders are friendly and cooperative rather than being competitive in a hostile way. When one or more birders are trying to find a challenging sighting, someone else can walk up and instantly become part of their group. That's nice.

